If you have been dating someone for a while. And you break up because you feel your relationship is going nowhere fast, because the guy does not have his priority straight, stay broken up.

Do not leave room for when he changes. Because he really might change. But he does not want to be reminded of who he once was. So when he finally gets his head out of his behind. Do not be found standing in the wings. Having waited there in case you change your mind or he changes.

What happens is that when he finally gets it and becomes a better man. There will be a mad scramble for him and he will forget that you were always there for him, when he was a nobody.

He will start believing that he is God’s gift to women. You hinting or even suggesting getting back together is a big No, to him, because that absolutely reeks of desperation. No self respecting woman should be found taking back yesterday’s twitter.

When you break up for a good reason there is no need for the ex to be on your msn or face book or any means of communication. It assures him that you were never really over him and that you were just waiting for him to become rich or to buy that penthouse and to be moving in better social circles.

That kind of man who gets rich after you break up with him is very dangerous to try and get back with. Because he will break up with you on his own terms and you will give him ammunition to beat his chest and roar like Tarzan.

So here it is, stay past flames that is the best status that you can be. And do not keep tabs on his progress no bird of prey antics on this one.

The ex is history don’t dare go back there.

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